New Friends Online? Check Them Out Before Getting Too Close

The Internet has become one of the latest places to meet
people. Whether you are looking for a casual friend or a
romantic interlude, it can all be found on the worldwide
web. Places like Facebook and Myspace give you a forum to
express yourself to others, and the number of matchmaker
sites these days is overwhelming.

If you have ever spent any time meeting and greeting on the
web, you know that most people are not exactly what they
make themselves out to be. Some of them have gone so far as
to create an entire alternate identity.

Despite the dangers, the rewards of meeting online can be
great. You have the opportunity to get to know others from
all over the world. You make new and interesting friends
from places you may never have visited. It provides an
excellent opportunity for us to share our cultures and open
our minds to new possibilities.

Who is really behind that screen name?

When you make new friends online, how do you know if they
are trustworthy? Can you really afford to get close to
them, or are Internet friendships best kept very casual?

As with any new relationship, go slowly and proceed with
caution. Keep the topics of conversation neutral and safe
â€" never discuss anything personal with someone you
do not know. Be instantly suspicious if your new friend
begins questioning you about your finances.

If you have been conversing with someone for a while and
feel a connection, you may decide you want to take the
friendship a step further. You may begin to share more
personal details of your life, or you may begin making
plans to meet each other in person.

Take smart measures to protect yourself

Before taking this step towards increased intimacy, be sure
to reasonably protect yourself. First of all, try to
validate your new friend's identity and ensure they
really are who they say they are. Search records from the
Department of Motor Vehicles in your friend's area and
see if you can locate a license or identification card that
matches the name, date of birth, physical description, and
address of your new friend. If you cannot find a matching
motor vehicle record, try voter registration records.

One of the best ways to protect yourself is to conduct an
online background check of your friend. Any court documents
from judgments, divorces, or lawsuits should contain some
sort of identifying information you can verify. Criminal
history checks will normally provide you with a date of
birth and physical description, including any major scars
or tattoos.

There are also specialized background check companies, such
as Net Detective, who for a small fee, give you the ability
to search all of the above records and more. You must do a
little sleuth work of your own, though, and find out some
important key identifiers from your new friend so you will
know when you have found him or her.

Meeting on the Internet can be exciting. You must just
ensure you go about it prudently, and protect yourself
until you have solid facts reinforcing your ability to put
your trust into your new friend.

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