Who do You Trust? Should You?

We all have someone in our lives with whom we feel we can
share all of our thoughts and secrets. Usually it is a
member of our family, or a schoolmate whose friendship has
endured through the decades. These people have usually
seen us at our best and at our worst, and they have been
right there by our sides to see us through it all. Such
friends and family share in the triumphs and suffer through
the sorrows. There are no ulterior motives.

Many of us also have friends we have known for quite some
time, who are always open and friendly, but never really
help carry the burden when the going gets tough. Or we have
family members who suddenly pop into our lives from
seemingly nowhere.

How many of these people do you trust? Would you trust them
with your life? Can you trust them with a secret? Or do you
trust no one?

Be careful who you trust - your welfare may depend upon it

When it comes to matters of great importance, we must be
very cautious with our secrets. How many times have you
heard stories of the trusted caregiver stealing his or her
elderly charge blind? Suddenly a helpless senior citizen
with no family to speak of is left destitute, their
life's savings stolen from them by the very person who
was supposed to care for them.

Or, how many times have you seen one person suddenly
befriend another, only because they wanted something they
couldn't otherwise attain? Remember Selena, the singer?
Her trusted manager and friend not only stole from her, but
she eventually killed her.

How do you know who you can trust, or if you even should?
In cases of close family, you most likely already know who
has stood by you through it all and who has not. However,
when it comes to other people, use caution and trust your
judgment.

Research their intentions and past, easily and legally

If you feel someone has befriended you because they want
something from you, play detective and try to find out what
that person's wants and needs are. Learning what they
lack in their life may very well hold the key to what they
are looking for from you - giving you the knowledge to
protect yourself and your assets.

If you suspect your newfound friend is in financial
trouble, try looking into court records to see if any
bankruptcies have been filed, or any judgments have been
made against that person. Look for property foreclosures,
IRS or other tax liens, or court-ordered wage garnishments.
Try to determine if your friend has a gambling problem.

On the other hand, you may suspect your new friend is a
thief, or running from someone. A personal background check
should reveal secrets about your friend's life, including
any criminal misconduct.

Most of this investigation can be done via the Internet by
searching public records. However, you may have to dig
into many different databases to get the answers you want.
If you are looking for an easy, quick way to search an
individual's true history, an online background check
service, such as Net Detective, is an affordable way to
search all available databases from one location.

Looking into someone's past may not seem necessary, but
it will be well worth it if it saves you the headache of a
stolen identity or an empty bank account. It will also be
worth it if you are able to forge one of those rare,
lifelong friendships.

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About the author

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